It’s been over a year since I last wrote an entry for this blog so there’s a lot to catch up on – Let’s start with this weekend.
1 year married already…. where has that time gone?
For our first wedding anniversary I set Adam a challenge because I always have to arrange everything; trips, days out, meals etc. So… we agreed some time off and a budget and then it was over to him.
I was thinking he might book us a spa break or something luxury and when he told me to catch the train to Gloucester and meet him there I had no idea what to expect.
He’d booked us a nice hotel and surprised me by having our dog Tilly with him (it’s ok the hotel allowed it at an extra charge) which was the best surprise ever! We spent some time in the pool and spa area and then had a nice dinner. So far, so good.
Over our evening meal he revealed the plans for the next 2 days which were…. canoeing the River Wye and camping overnight. Luckily for Adam I was half expecting something outdoorsy and even luckier I was up for it!
We had a good night’s rest and Tilly made the most of the King/queen size bed
and Adam even packed us some prosecco and smoked salmon to have on the river. I was truly impressed as we bobbed away eating, drinking (sensibly!) and chatting, feeling that my husband had done well. I then heard the beginning of what I thought was going to be a heart felt and romantic sentence on our one year wedding anniversary…
“For the rest of my life I want to…….study nature”
Haha what did I really expect?!
We love taking Tilly for long walks and now Spring is here we will be going out more and more. On Monday it was bank holiday and we went for a wander…
First stop was the little patch of woodland near our house where we found this grumpy looking tree!
Haha looks like me when I catch Adam using our saucepans for bushcraft things!
Anyway whilst wandering Adam told me about the little shoes hidden in white dead nettles. Yes shoes!
It’s a story about fairies hiding the centipede’s shoes and how he decided to hide them in white dead nettle so they wouldn’t get them.
White dead nettle doesn’t sting but the fairies didn’t know that! I found this blog www.tentsandfestivals.co.uk telling the story which is very cute! I checked it out for myself in the nettles and it’s true!!!
The upcoming honeymoon will be our first compromise as husband and wife and we have quite different ideas of what it should look like!
Adam and I had a day off together on Tuesday after both having worked the weekend.
Random mid week days are great because there is no one around and we can just wander off into the fields with Tilly. The sun was shining, and it was a great day to be out.
When out walking I tend to be thinking of other things i.e., the approaching wedding, the imminent house move, things going on with work or plans for the weekend. It’s a shame really and I need to get better at enjoying the moment….like Adam does…..
For every good moment there is a corresponding not-so-good moment. I think this is a positive thing and great practice for a long and happy marriage…I hear it’s all about compromise…