This day last year I shattered by elbow.
It was my friend’s hen do and the first activity I’d organised for the day was a trampoline park and ninja assault course. We said to each other we’d be sensible on the trampolines because we didn’t want anyone to have any injuries.
However, disaster struck on the ninja assault course.
We were just about to finish and leave when I fancied one more go on the monkey bars and fell. The fall was approximately 10 feet high onto a crash mat but this clearly didn’t break my fall. As soon as I landed I knew I had done something serious.
After three hours at A&E, a scan and some pain killers I was told that I had shattered by elbow in multiple places and would need an operation.
As maid of honour this wasn’t an option so I requested plaster and morphine for now and would have the operation in a couple of days. I was back at the hen do for afternoon tea at 3pm and we carried on to the meal and drinks that night.
Adrenaline and morphine kept me going until 2am
but wow did I pay for it the next day!
The morphine had gone out of my system and I had no other painkillers. Anyway I made it home and had my operation eight days later with the surgeon telling me my bone was mush!
For three months I was unable to drive, I couldn’t open a water bottle, couldn’t tie up my hair, couldn’t lock my front door – it was so frustrating!
My biggest fear was that I wouldn’t be able to do some of the activities that Adam and I love to do like canoeing, kayaking, climbing, hiking and skiing.
A year on, its been a long journey, my arm still doesn’t fully bend, my wrist doesn’t fully rotate (and probably never will). BUT I’ve been going to the gym to build up my strength and I’ve definitely seen improvements.
The exciting moment for me came at the beginning of June this year on a hen do in Bath. One of the activities was rowing and not many people were confident. I know how to row but didn’t know if my arm would be strong enough.
I volunteered anyway and yey, all was fine!!! I don’t think I could do it for a long period of time but it was good enough for a relaxing boat trip.
Later that month I got another chance to test myself and spent some time paddling a canoe. All was good and I was excited to still be able to do the activities we both enjoy so much 🙂
Although my work has been affected by my injuries, it looks hopeful that my activities and adventures with Adam won’t be. The next test will be climbing and a trip to Norway is on the cards 😍
P.S. one thing I learned from this incident is that Adam can do excellent hair braids – a benefit from all that basket weaving and cordage making!